Two are Enough, Three are too Much!

It often happen that family has contributed a hot issue in the marriage. It could be his mother, her father, or any other family members. They are giving opinions, push it to be implemented in your marriage and soon it arises flames in your marriage..

I believe that family has their good will for you. But it is the time to put the opinions on the place it should be. If you encounter the problems, discuss it first with your spouse..Listen to his/her opinions then finalize the solution together.

If the problem persists and it still become the confussions for both of you, then a little help may do. Asking the opinion of the elder one may help such as parents, auntie, cousins. But just listen and make it to be your reference. Discuss it again about pros and cons to your spouse then decide it.

But the fact sometimes doesn't run smooth. Family sometimes become too dominant in determining "your marriage boat direction". They keep pushing and pushing opinion into yours.
Learn to pull them aside of "your marriage area". being strict is important to do.
Don't let other people ruin your "marriage boundary". but always do it in the manner way and not insulting others. Treat every opinion as reference but the final decision is yours.

Marriage Value: It is important to remember that marriage is belong to you and your spouse. Family is important in contributing ideas but the final decision must be yours to choose..